The Power of Forgiveness by Pst. Joseph Ondu
Introduction:
Today, I want to talk to you about a subject that is close to the heart of God and essential for our own spiritual well-being — forgiveness. The power of forgiveness is one of the most profound aspects of the Christian faith. It's not just a nice idea; it's a command from God, and it's crucial for our own spiritual health and the health of our relationships.
Scripture:
Let's turn to the Bible, to the book of Matthew, chapter 6, verse 14-15, where Jesus says, "For if you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you, but if you do not forgive others their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses."
Explanation:
These words of Jesus couldn't be clearer. He tells us that if we want to receive forgiveness from God, we must be willing to forgive others. Forgiveness is not optional; it's a command from our Lord. But the power of forgiveness goes even deeper than that.
Forgiveness is a concept that transcends cultures, religions, and beliefs. It is a cornerstone of many faiths and philosophies, and for a good reason. Forgiveness has the power to heal, to mend broken hearts, and to bring peace to troubled minds. It is a gift that we can give both to others and to ourselves.
But forgiveness is not always easy. When we have been wronged, when we have been hurt, our natural inclination is often to hold onto that hurt, to nurse our grievances, and to seek revenge. But in doing so, we only perpetuate the cycle of pain and suffering. We become prisoners of our own anger and resentment, trapped in a never-ending cycle of bitterness and regret.
But when we choose to forgive, we break free from that cycle. We release ourselves from the burden of anger and resentment, and we open ourselves up to healing and reconciliation. When we forgive, we let go of the past and make room for a brighter future.
Now, I know that forgiveness is not always easy. Sometimes, the wounds run deep, and the pain seems too great to bear. But we must remember that forgiveness is not about forgetting or excusing the wrong that has been done to us. It is about choosing to let go of our anger and resentment, and to move forward with love and compassion in our hearts.
And when we choose to forgive, we not only free ourselves from the pain of the past, but we also open the door to healing and reconciliation. We give others the opportunity to make amends, to right their wrongs, and to rebuild the trust that may have been lost.
But perhaps most importantly, when we choose to forgive, we emulate the greatest example of forgiveness that the world has ever known. For in his infinite wisdom and boundless love, God has forgiven us for our sins, time and time again, no matter how many times we have fallen short.
So let us follow in his footsteps, and let us choose to forgive, not just today, but every day. Let us free ourselves from the burden of anger and resentment and let us open our hearts to healing and reconciliation. For in forgiveness, we find true freedom, true peace, and true love. Amen.
Scripture:
In the book of Colossians, chapter 3, verse 13, we read, "Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you."
Explanation:
Here, Paul tells us to forgive others as the Lord forgave us. How did the Lord forgive us? Completely and unconditionally. He forgave us of all our sins, past, present, and future, when we didn't deserve it at all. And that's the model for us to follow in our own lives.
Scripture:
In the Gospel of Luke, chapter 23, verse 34, we see the ultimate example of forgiveness. As Jesus was being crucified, He said, "Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing."
Explanation:
Even in the midst of unimaginable suffering, Jesus was able to forgive those who were crucifying Him. If Jesus can forgive those who crucified Him, surely we can forgive those who have wronged us.
Practical Application:
So, what does this mean for us? It means that forgiveness is not just a nice thing to do; it's essential for our own spiritual well-being. When we hold onto unforgiveness, it's like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die. It only hurts us.
Scripture:
In the book of Ephesians, chapter 4, verses 31-32, Paul says, "Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you."
Conclusion:
So, brothers and sisters, let us be people who are quick to forgive, just as our Heavenly Father has forgiven us. Let us not allow bitterness and unforgiveness to take root in our hearts, but instead, let us show the love of Christ by extending forgiveness to those who have wronged us. As we do, we will experience the power of forgiveness in our own lives, and we will be a light to the world around us. Amen.
